No matter whether it is possible or not, many people long for a soul mate who is both the same and complementary to themselves. Although I believe that for most people, it will never happen in their lifetime. No matter what their identity or status is, people who have lived half their lives not only understand but also understand the unfairness of this society. Unfairness is reasonable, but the probability of this soul mate is very fair. No matter who you are, everyone has the same probability of meeting this kind of soul mate. It is so slim that you can say it is not.
What I want to say is that soul mates are an illusory realm of sexual relationships that only exist in novels and movies. Everyone looks forward to it. As long as your heart is not old, you will always maintain an expectation for such a person you meet. In fact, this expectation itself also has meaning, which allows you to be kind to yourself at any time, manage yourself, and stay away from depression and degradation.